I decided to visit the local Stockbridge BenchWamers after work 1.8.12 and was extremely disappointed in the service. I seated myself at a table near the bar. After about 10 minutes of no service, I decided to go to the bar (thinking there was no one available to service the patrons at the tables). A bartender asked the other one to take my order. In light of the poor service, they actually had one of my wine selections, Kendall Jackson – Chardonay . Well about 15 minutes later 2 guys walked in and was seated directly next to me. About 2 minutes after they were seated a waitress actually appeared out of nowhere. REALLY! Do some bartenders and waitresses only embrace the male patrons????? Is there any love for the female patrons.....or better yet how about service. Thanks to the bartender with the braids for taking my order. We really don't mind tipping for service.