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What do you do when you have a child refusing to see a parent to the point of self harm. A child who hasnt liked said parent since she was 4. Well DO NOT call on Ms James. She starts off understanding and admits the child is scared then as time goes by and NOTHING improves with said parent change…

What do you do when you have a child refusing to see a parent to the point of self harm. A child who hasnt liked said parent since she was 4. Well DO NOT call on Ms James. She starts off understanding and admits the child is scared then as time goes by and NOTHING improves with said parent changes tactics to threaten said child with anything she can think of so the parent that wants controll of child will get her way even though there are many drs and therapist against this. Will allow said parent to lie get caught and no concequences except to blame the child. Will lie herself to you the person trying to care and help said child and get caught as well. Expects said child to forget about the reasons child is afraid and just turn over a new page and start over again like nothing has happened to make the child feel this way. I am bot the childs parent. I am the loving caring adult who has watched this happen to someone i care deeply about. Have held hysterical child talked the child off the edge and wants nothing more then to see child happy. Im all for reunification of parent and child. But please let the child heal from whatever it is the child has to deal with. Threatening child or expecting child to forget everything that has happened is uncalled for. Theres obviously a reason her buisness doors closed and she now does this remotely. I Do Not recommend Ms James if your child is traumatized by a parent as her tactics will only make it worse.