It is what it is...hoc est quod dicis...which really means "It is what you say it is". Tell me how YOU see the world. I want to know your personal thoughts on topics such as why people do certain things, what is your true opinions about others' behaviors, and what things matter to you and what doesn't. I am interested in knowing your gender, age and relationship status (e.g. married, single, divorced, widowed, dumped, etc.)