Mediation and the 4 (D's): Divorce, Disagreements and Disputes, don't have to be Difficult. They don't have to be as stressful, intimidating, overwhelming or traumatic as they sometimes turn out to be. With mediation, all of these can be resolved in a non-judicial, one on one, confidential, atmosphere. Lawsuits, and the thought of going before a judge to have your life decided for you can be so unbearable to some people that they choose to avoid the confrontation rather than resolve it. Don't let that fear be the deciding factor. Take control of the situation and set up a mediation session with the other party to resolve your issues together. MEDIATIONS ARE CONFIDENTIAL. You and the other party are the only ones who can decide how to settle and if to settle. You can feel confident that any agreement that is reached can remain confidential between the parties. Agreements reached during the process of any litigation will be filed with the court.