If your mother made good choices during her pregnancy with you (e.g., regarding drugs, diet, and healthcare), and she was otherwise healthy and fortunate with her pregnancy and childbirth, you probably began life as a healthy infant with good “hardware.” You were prepared to learn and grow with lots of potential for a happy and successful life. All of this assumes that the downloaded software was relatively virus-free. If this were the case, the software promoted success, clear thinking, and happiness. Unfortunately, the software we download from our parents, teachers, and other persons of influence is often flawed with thoughts and beliefs of a constrained and distorted world with much in the way of irrational beliefs, prejudice, and bias regarding self and others. To the extent that this is true, our pattern of accomplishments is compromised by this flawed software, and addressing these flaws is worth what de-bugging costs. For many of us, it is time to be in the world differently. Services are provided internationally via Skype and FaceTime.