Defining Moments.... are the moments that you just son't want to let go of. So why not spend your time enjoying those moments instea of trying to make sure everthing goes smothly. Let me do the hard work, because how are you going to feel when your cake is sitting on the wrong table? Are you going to bale on your fiance in the middle of the I do's to go fix the cake? Or say your at at company party that you are in charge of, the refreshments are running low so while you are replenishing them your boss decides to get on a chair and start hoola hooping and then he falls off and everybody is laughing, but you, because you missed it........ So, you enjoy your time at the celebration ehatever kind it may be and.............. Leave the hard work to me!