Mediation is the best way to resolve lawsuits and disputes .According with the NJ Court the purpose of Mediation is not to decide who is right or wrong, the goal is to give the parties the opportunity to (1) express feelings and difusse anger, (2) to clear up misunderstandings, (3) to determine underlying interests or concerns, (4) find areas of agreement, and ultimately, (5) incorporate these areas into solutions devised by the parties themselves. According with Court rule 1:40-4&6 govern the mediation program for Civil, General Equity and Probate cases. Under R. 1:40-6,the court can refer any civil case to mediation at no charge for two hours.