Everyone uses first names only. Everyone pays their own way. No exchanging of numbers or asking anyone out. Requests to exchange numbers go through the management. Both parties must make a request for both numbers to be given out. If only one person requests, the other person is not told who requested and no numbers are given out. This keeps a respectful environment with no fear of rejection. No fee to attend your first event. After that, there is a $12 fee per event.